Destroying your Fear with Women
Know that feeling when you were doing something that you just didn’t how to explain it, but you just felt so extremely focused without even trying? That is what we called “being in state”. You are almost unconscious, like you no longer feel you are there in your immediate surrounding and only focus on the task at hand. You no longer think, you simply do.
You always want to be in that great state when you are out there approaching girls for the reason that it will affect your general state of mind and hence your behavior. Regardless if you’re in state yet, conversing to people and opening successful sets will increasingly get you into state. Now here is what you can do to get into state and become indestructible in public gatherings when you are out meeting women:
“Are you feeling entitled?” “Do you possess a core of entitlement?”
Assume the role of the coolest dude around having title and status above all the other people, and you will automatically behave like it because of those entitlements. Alright, duh, I know that sounds so apparent, but to help lay out what I am trying to say, here’s a question for you…
If you were shifted back in the past, to your same high school classes over in your old self, and lets say you have forgotten about everything you learned when you were there, after gaining real life experience and with those real world experiences, wouldn’t you have a fond sense of confident that wasn’ there retackling them?
You would approach everything with no nervous-inferiority regarding the classes being difficult because you should be entitled to learn them simply in consideration of you have been in the similar position before, even though you have forgotten the subject matters, and have been exposed to all those world experiences. Those antecedents will enable your subconscious that everything should be smooth sailing, taking those exact courses over.
And again the materials are new to you or have been completely wiped out, but your ego will come into play and this should be only child’s play. You would feel a feeling of entitlement that you deserved to be the top student.
Now apply it back to meeting girls. You you are entitled to her in that you have formerly gone out Playboy models, porn stars, celebrities, despite how ridiculous it seems. After all you have gone out with those high-caliber females, then you are entitled to get any girl, and the girl you just encounter should be yours and is not difficult, in comparison to those high-caliber women you been with, and you will convey those attractive traits which she can’t refrain from and will be the one chasing you.
Or possibly on conditions of nonexclusive social dynamics. At an established cocktail party, you are the president’s son or the prince of England so it’s your entitlement folks should want to be around you and respect you. In a night club, you are the bar owner, or Tommy Lee or Brad Pitt, who have these entitlements to get any girl and they desire you.
Recognize that regardless you might not be these high-value people, you’re expressing that. Are you being delusional? Maybe you can say that. This is where self-worth comes into play, this perception of yourself, governing you to easily attract the woman without bothersome.
However, remember that being state won’t make up for if there is zero skill set, but once you surpass that threshold, you can always rebound right back when things don’t go the way you hope because nothing can deter your unshakable positive-attitude. Bear in mind this is only half of the game that will get you in the right route whenever you’re out. If you want to develop this full knowledge, take a look at my Art of Social Natural.
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your “social skills” to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women…but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
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